What’s wrong with hating?

These days, if you disagree with someone’s orthodoxy, you can get called a “hater”, as if there was something wrong with hating. I imagine a dialogue that goes something like this, between me and a person I will call the hate labeler:

Me: I believe that since God ordained and created marriage, it is not subject to human re-definition as the union of two people of the same sex.

H.L.: That’s hate speech, you must be a homophobe.

Me: I suppose here is where I am expected defend myself, or deny I hate, or insist that I am not phobic. I won’t do any of that. I do hate it when someone tries to tamper with God’s definitions. What’s wrong with hating?

H.L.: Hating is wrong.  Anything that tramples on someone’s self worth is wrong and bad.

Me: Wrong and bad according to whom? Why should I care about someone’s self worth? What standard are you appealing to if you value people’s feelings about themselves?

H.L: I am appealing to the intrinsic value and dignity of all human beings. The Declaration of Independence states “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights…”

Me: Hold the fort, are you appealing to the Declaration itself, or to the Creator? That Creator who not only endows human rights but also defines marriage, and has a long list of things He hates, may have an issue with your accusation of hate speech. Maybe you should appeal to Darwin instead.

Why do I suggest appealing to Charles Darwin? I am assuming, here, that most “hate labelers” hold to a Darwinian view of human origins, or none at all. In such cases, what would be their basis for believing in the worth of a human being?

So the next time you get called a hater you should reframe the dialogue. Check out my March 14 post on social justice.

Religion of peace?

Is there any such thing? Of what value would such a religion be? Peace between whom? Under what conditions? Does claiming that your religion is one of peace make you, or the deity you worship, righteous? Let’s define some terms. What is a religion? My operational definition is: A system of doctrines about and methods of worshipping a deity, controlling power or God. While there is more to it, that definition will get us started.

I know the most about 4 major religions–Christianity, Judaism, Islam and secular materialism–and little about Hinduism, Buddhism or others, so I will confine myself to speaking about those 4. All 4 have scriptures (though the scripture of secular materialism is not published as such but is more pervasive than the other scriptures, at least in modern nations that feature advertising). The scriptures all have lots of passages that, if taken out of context, can appear to promote both peace and war, kindness and brutality, and the unregenerate human heart can unselfconsciously make a preferred meaning out of anything. As Isaiah 64:6 says, “We have all become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous deeds are like a polluted garment.”

Therefore, I am not going to select quotes from scriptures to promote a particular view. What I will do is ask hard questions, like those above. What is peace? Is it merely the absence of explicit conflict? Since the human mind and heart are polluted with selfishness, wishful thinking, anger and other detritus of our thwarted desires or innate sinfulness or painful experiences (depending upon your theory of human evil), the absence of explicit conflict may be no more than a covering of ash on coals that are about to flare up again.

Why even value peace? Why not promote war and conflict? I value peace because my Lord Jesus Christ, when dying a most hideous death for the sake of those who hated Him, while being ridiculed and reviled, even though He had the power to destroy His tormentors, instead called to His father in heaven, “Father forgive them for they know not what they do.” Why do you value peace?

True peace between human beings requires actions that clean the heart: admitting guilt and asking for forgiveness for wrongs we have committed, forgiving wrongs that have been committed against us, putting the welfare of others before our own desires. How does your religion help? What kind of example does your religion, in the person of the deity you worship, give you? Can your worship clean your heart? Jesus did so at the cross. In the words of the song My Worth Is Not In What I Own, “my value fixed my ransom paid, at the cross.” Listen to it here. getty worth